Popular Nigerian musician Korede Bello has advised the youths to take care of themselves first before considering to be in a relationship.
The “Godwin” hitmaker took to twitter earlier this morning on 5/11/2020 that;
“Its only fair to take care of yourself first before considering to be in a relationshiP”
It’s only fair to take care of yourself first before considering to be in a relationshiP
— IT’S OKAY ? (@koredebello) November 5, 2020
This goes to be a very good advice to us all since most of us, both grown and young skip this step before getting into relationships. This is one major factor that contributes to broken hearts, broken homes, suicides, stress and early parenting which comes with a lot of challenges.
Twitter users who saw this tweet did not ignore the tweet but rather took on to acknowledge the superstar for such great message.
Below are some replies from twitter users and fans on Korede Bello’s tweet;
“It’s only fair to take care of yourself first before considering to be in a relationshiP”
— Tife ? (@BanjoBoluwatif2) November 5, 2020
— BENITA BeChaˢᵀ??????? (@BenedictaGbana) November 5, 2020
— Laryoh (@iamLaryoh) November 5, 2020
Well said ✌
— Glomzy ? (@___Glomzy) November 5, 2020
What a wise statement and word for the people seeking to do this.
— Simon Proudly Sapiiny (@csonesmas) November 5, 2020
You talk truth
— Ice ❄ (@YankeeOG_) November 5, 2020
Relationships And Different Expectations
With that said, relationships fail because of failure to take care of one’s self first. This is really true because many people go into relationships before taking care of themselves, in the cost and at the risk of their partner. This is very bad, because we all go into relationships with different expectations.
And the worse is going into relationship with the expectation of your partner to take care of you. With this, if one’s expectations are not met, then issues start to pop up. Always take care of yourself first either financially, emotionally and visionarily before considering to be in a relationship.