South African female DJ and producer DJ Zinhle has received bunch responses to a question she asked on social media about being a good person.
According to DJ Zinhle, the question was not her intended question but rather, she asked for a friend.
Consequently, we believe a friend of the artiste has been hit with either disappointment or has been tired of being a good person for other reasons.
DJ Zinhle however, asked:
Do you ever get tired of being a good person?
This was a tweet she made later hours of today as a question from a friend.
Do you ever get tired of being a good person? Asking for a friend..
— #Indlovu #ERAbyDJZinhle #ZeeNation (@DJZinhle) March 2, 2021
Empirically, while some people have naturally been good and have continually been practicing the act of being good to persons, it looks like some people have not seen any benefit in the act and are wondering whether they should become the other way.
Check below how the general public responded to DJ Zinhle’s question:
Like it or not that good side of you will never die but i understand coz some folks can be assholes
— RoccaQue (@RawcaQ) March 2, 2021
Yes . The sad part is pipo take ur kindness for weakness and granted.
— Oli Graced Mandy Chelsea?? (@ChuuluMemory) March 2, 2021
Ufakhi akube ufakhi wem’Zinhlez’
Ngeke sincenge impilo bese sincenga abantu, not in these times… pic.twitter.com/QP4eL2LY4P
— uNjomane (@Mr_Heronation) March 2, 2021
You have to try and be nice almost all the time. But also understand sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Sometimes you have to be not so nice pic.twitter.com/zYUpLI84zR
— key samkelo (@SamiiKey007) March 2, 2021
Noo I don’t get tired of being a good person, because I’ve decided I will no longer do good for the sake of validation, hey man of they don’t appreciate my good deeds that’s on them, otherwise we move, at least it’s one more good deed in the Karma book pic.twitter.com/PrUdTj6ocL
— Thekgo Raseala (@ThekgoR) March 2, 2021
However, an audience was fair enough to say it would be best to turn down the act of being a good person if your kindness affects you negatively:
Yebo,Sometimes you need to be rude at people if you see that now they are taking advantage of your kindness…Just for control
— Vibe (@KitsoDaKit) March 2, 2021
It’s very important to be an Asshole.. Being a good hearted abantu bakwenze Umdidi pic.twitter.com/0UoerOGr4U
— ChrisExcel (@ChrisExcel102) March 2, 2021
But what do you gain from that!? Like I’m asking honestly, horr what do you genuinely gain from that!?
— Thekgo Raseala (@ThekgoR) March 2, 2021
All the time
I’m only human there’s only so much bs I can take and also being the bigger person for the sake of being a good person is tiring emotionally and mentally
Sometimes I just wanna be like pic.twitter.com/MfxXGLiB1r— Mosa Tsoaeli (@_MosaTsoaeli) March 2, 2021
Yes.. And I would swear I will never ever but because its who I am I find myself doing it again and again… Guess you can’t change who you are?♀️
— Ms_Leu (@ms_leu) March 2, 2021
A summary of the responses was given by Miss Zoe (@nellypulumo):
Yes, but if that’s who you are it’s almost impossible to change , so you withdraw from a situation with no anger at all. So even when you feel tired today, tomorrow is a different day and chances are you will get over what happened and continue being a good person
— Miss Zoe (@nellypulumo) March 2, 2021
So the decision lies on how your heart and brain collaborate to tell you what to do!
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